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Why “DIY Divorce” Is Riskier Than Ever (Even Celebrities Get It Wrong)
If recent headlines have shown us anything, it’s that even high-profile couples—with teams of advisors—can end up in prolonged, expensive divorce disputes when key issues aren’t fully addressed upfront. While most families don’t have celebrity-level assets, the lesson is the same: The details matter. And what’s missed early often becomes a problem later. You wouldn’t watch a YouTube video to learn how to perform surgery. You wouldn’t rewire your home based on a few online ins

Kathryn L. Ciesla
Mar 172 min read


Social Media and Divorce: Why You Need to Be Careful Online
When you’re going through a divorce, it’s natural to turn to social media to vent or stay connected. However, posts, photos, and even private messages can be used in legal proceedings. Understanding how online activity may affect your case can help you protect your privacy and avoid unnecessary complications.

Kathryn L. Ciesla
Mar 33 min read


Co-Parenting Basics
Co-parenting requires ongoing communication and cooperation between parents who are no longer in a relationship. While that can be challenging, particularly in the early stages, a thoughtful and consistent approach can provide children with a sense of stability and security during a time of transition. In many cases, the most successful arrangements are not those without disagreement, but those where parents are able to manage differences in a way that protects the child from

Kathryn L. Ciesla
Feb 113 min read


Preparing for Mediation
Mediation offers an opportunity to resolve issues in a more private and structured setting. When approached thoughtfully, it can provide a path toward resolution that is both efficient and tailored to the needs of the family. Preparation plays a significant role in the productivity of the process. Understanding the Role of Mediation Mediation involves a neutral third party who facilitates discussion and helps guide both parties toward agreement. The mediator does not make dec

Kathryn L. Ciesla
Feb 101 min read


What to Expect at Your First Court Appearance
An overview of what happens at your first court appearance in an Illinois divorce case and how to prepare.

Kathryn L. Ciesla
Jan 232 min read


Understanding the Divorce Process in Illinois
Divorce is a structured legal process that unfolds over time. While each case is unique, most follow a general progression that provides a framework for resolving both financial and parenting issues. Filing the Petition The process begins when one party files a petition for dissolution of marriage. This formally initiates the case. Financial Disclosures Both parties are required to exchange financial information. This step forms the basis for decisions related to property div

Kathryn L. Ciesla
Jan 211 min read


Understanding the Court Process in Illinois
For many people, the idea of going to court is unfamiliar and, at times, overwhelming. In reality, most family law cases follow a structured and predictable process. Understanding how that process works can help reduce uncertainty and allow you to approach each stage with greater confidence. While every case is different, the court system is designed to move matters forward in an organized and deliberate way. The Role of the Court The court’s role is to provide a framework fo

Kathryn L. Ciesla
Jan 143 min read


Understanding Parenting Time and Decision-Making
When parents separate, one of the most important and often most sensitive issues is how decisions will be made for the children and how time will be shared. Illinois law no longer uses the term “custody.” Instead, courts focus on the allocation of parental responsibilities and parenting time, with the child’s best interests guiding every decision. Understanding how this framework works can help you approach the process with greater clarity and confidence. Parenting Time: How

Kathryn L. Ciesla
Jan 132 min read


What to Gather Before Filing for Divorce
The early stages of a divorce often come with uncertainty. Taking time to organize key information at the outset can bring clarity, reduce unnecessary stress, and allow for more informed decision-making as the process moves forward. You do not need to have everything resolved before speaking with an attorney. However, having a general understanding of your financial and personal circumstances provides a strong foundation. Understanding Your Financial Picture A clear view of y

Kathryn L. Ciesla
Jan 102 min read


Financial Documents Checklist
Financial transparency is a central component of any divorce matter. Having organized, accessible documentation allows for a clearer understanding of income, assets, and obligations and supports more informed decision-making throughout the process. This checklist outlines the materials most commonly requested. Income Documentation Recent pay stubs W-2s and 1099s Tax returns (typically the past 2–3 years) Documentation of bonuses, commissions, or other compensation Bank and Ca

Kathryn L. Ciesla
Jan 61 min read


What to Expect in an Illinois Divorce
Divorce is not a single event, but a process. While every case is different, most divorces in Illinois follow a similar path. Understanding what to expect can make the process feel more manageable and help you make informed decisions at each stage. The Process Begins with Filing A divorce starts when one spouse files a Petition for Dissolution of Marriage with the court. The other spouse is then formally notified. Illinois is a no-fault state, which means the only ground for

Kathryn L. Ciesla
Jan 22 min read


No More Reindeer Games
If your thoughts turn to Rudolph and whatever games those other, mean reindeer wouldn’t let him play, you are right. Reindeer games...
Jennifer Cunningham Beeler
Dec 16, 20203 min read


The P's and Q's of Zoom Court
Family court. Not exactly the place to go to learn the etiquette of Zoom. But as we are all trying to adapt to these new times, judges,...

Kathryn L. Ciesla
May 13, 20203 min read


Pass Me a Quarantini?
If you have a Facebook or Instagram account, you are treated to daily images about cooking during quarantine, the challenges of...

Kathryn L. Ciesla
May 4, 20202 min read


Finding Shelter During the Pandemic
We sift daily through the jokes and GIFs about how to share your space with a partner, children and pets during this time of sheltering...

Kathryn L. Ciesla
Apr 11, 20203 min read


Moving Your Case Virtually
To our Ciesla Beeler Clients, Friends and Colleagues: We hope that this email message finds you and your loved ones healthy and adjusting...

Kathryn L. Ciesla
Mar 31, 20202 min read


COVID-19 Court Update March 2020
You never know what’s around the corner. It could be everything. Or it could be nothing. You keep putting one foot in front of the...

Kathryn L. Ciesla
Mar 16, 20202 min read


STOP IT - Why Google Shouldn't Be Your Divorce Attorney
You wouldn't watch a YouTube video to learn how to perform your own appendectomy, nor would you re-wire your home reading instructions...

Kathryn L. Ciesla
Jan 5, 20203 min read


Kathryn Ciesla to Present at AFCC Illinois on Transgender Youth in the Family Court System
Transgender youth are often involved in family court proceedings due to parental rejection, mental health problems, and conflict...

Kathryn L. Ciesla
Dec 31, 20191 min read


Read Jennifer Beeler's Guest Blog Post for the Collaborative Law Institute of Illinois
Trust and the Divorce Process

Kathryn L. Ciesla
Dec 30, 20191 min read
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